Why are women so difficult to understand? Why relationships fall apart because of misunderstandings? What exactly do women want? Why men fail to properly understand the woman in their lives? These questions have been asked many a times but nothing has been done to seek those answers.

http://factsaboutwomen.wetpaint.com is an effort in that regard. Its a wiki site that invites women to contribute. Wiki is short for What I Know Is. Wiki sites can be edited by anyone, real time, a great example being wikipedia.

If you are a woman wanting to be heard, open up your heart at Facts About Women. If you are a man, share your experiences with women, good and bad. Anyone can edit, add their say and remove the myths about women.

The idea is to create an encyclopedia about the female mind. The idea is to make the woman in you being heard.

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He was no ordinary man. She was no ordinary girl.
He was a man of strength, skill, wisdom and will power. She a seeker of those qualities.

He was famous, respected and revered for all that he was.

She wanted to be his. She wanted to be a woman, and not just any woman, but his woman. And he wanted to make this girl, his woman.

In life he had proven that there are few like him. Few, had the calmness, the wisdom, the brainpower he had. Few were better human beings than him. In fact, in her eyes he was a person with the biggest heart. And compassionate. He was romantic. Not just another guy. He understood that romance is everything, without romance love is incomplete.
He could make her feel like a queen and not just for a moment, she felt she was the most important girl in the world as long she was with him.

She wanted to love him so much. She wanted to love him with all that she had. But "can I" she thought. She wanted to give her everything to him. Her mind, her body, her soul, she wanted him to make them all his. She wanted to be his forever.

He couldn't resist all this love. How could he? How can any man resist such unconditional care? He wanted to offer the greatest part of himself. His ego had risen. So had his passion, his feelings for her. He started doing what she wanted. He was all over her. She was all under him.

She felt joy. she felt fear. she felt her world is going to change in a moment.But she could not feel nothing of those. All she felt was him.

....an eternity later.....

She felt like she had never felt before. What a wonderful feeling it was. She glowed like never before. She passionately put her hands on his cheeks. He was in her mind, body, blood. She could start a new day, in a new way as a queen would, with a new feeling.
More importantly she had become his.... forever

Disclaimer: All ideas & characters in this story are entirely fictional and any resemblance to any person, blog or event is purely co-incidental

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"But there's somebody out there with eyes open wide,
Who loves to embrace your joy and tears from your eyes,
He's hope for the hopeless, he will carry the burden..........,
............To get you through your crisis in life..."

These are lyrics of a song by Joni Lamb of the christian channel Daystar.
I sometimes watch this channel because I love Jesus and Mary, especially starting from 6:30Pm till 8:30pm they have got some great instrumental music and some breathtaking scenaries from North America., anyways,...

Now consider these Valentine day statements:
"I love him because he likes the things I like"
"I love her because she is so beautiful"
"I love him because he comes from the same background as I do"
"I love her because she too like me is an MBA"
"I love him because he is an architect....." and so snd so

All these statements of love have a condition attached to them. In other words they are conditional. Now compare these statements with the lyrics on the top. That statement is unconditional.

True love, in my opinion, should be unconditional & everlasting. Everlasting because its unconditional. And unconditional because its lasts and lasts and never ends.

If somebody says that he/she loves someone because they share some common interests then both people are immature in their understanding of love. A person's interests changes over time, eg I am intetested in cricket today, but may be 10 years from now cricket won't interest me, I would rather then be interested in life insurance, haha. Jokes apart, the question is that if love is based upon common interests then can it pass the test of time? Sure some common grounds is necessary for love to trigger, but that should not be the reason for loving. In fact there should be no reason for loving. Absolutely no reason. The answer to "why you love someone" should always be "I don't know".

Thats what is called the God kind of love.

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I have strange dreams. And in my dreams a very nice girl called Neeta keeps coming. She touches me caresses me and asks whats on my mind. The haedache i have after a hard day disappers immediately when she touches my forhead. I have never known any Neeta in my whole life. But this name keeps coming and coming. Neeta is probably the name of 1 million indian girls. is that why that name keeps coming in my mind? I do not know how she looks, but i can imagine her shape. Not how tall or how she dresses, but that she has got those lovely eyes and an ubiquitous naughty smile on her lips.

She can be anyone. She may or may not be Indian. She can be of any nationality, any race, any religion. She can speak any language. Even her name may not be Neeta. Her name can be anything.

The only criteria is that she should be feeling me.

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i wish i was in a place where there was no evil, no wrongdoing no injustice. people caring for each other sharing things. sometimes i wonder why our world is the way the it is, and where its headed.

i wish i was with someone who would care about me more than anything in this world.
i wish i could have cared for her more than i can care for myself.

i wish i was such so that evryone adored me.
i wish evryone i met would have been adorable.

i wish i had no wishes and all my wishes became realities.

i have added a bew dreamscape

I never understood the pleasure of sharing until i visited www.flickr.com
At this site its the Internet philosophy of sharing that is at full bloom.
Flickr is a photo sharing site and real people share their photos to Internet users. No money, no paying, all is free. I needed some photos for a presentation on something related to plants, and i got photos of all kinds of plants and flowers there. Its not the thumbnail photos, that come up on a google search but real high quality photos taken with cameras like the Canon powershot.

Some other sites I know that are great:
www.alexa.com  (Traffic Rankings for all countries)
www.digg.com  (news about people, digged up by people)
http://del.icio.us  (store bookmarks/hyperlinks)
www.myspace.com (friendship)
www.communities.com (friendship/dating, probably the most loved site on the Net)
www.moneybookers.com (does what paypal do, but offers cheques in INR)
www.facebook.com (rediff connexions is a clone of this site)
www.smashits.com (hindi songs online, but be careful not to download screensavers)
www.smashitsusa.com (all english songs)
www.dishant.com (high quality windows media hindi songs)
www.gayaki.com (hindi songs, low quality, for dial up)
www.howstuffworks.com (answers to everything)

thats all i can remember at the moment
i would be glad if i shared anything valuable to people who read my blogs

Life, is an illusion to many. May be to me also. But what i found out today that life is all about being free and experiencing the emotions.

life is an roller coaster of emotions. few people understand this. they live like money-worms spending most of their lives working for money. few people realize what they are killing with their own hands. their own life.

I want to see a free world. a world where everything is free. and i want to feel everything that is nice to feel their in life. I haven't felt true love yet so far, but i have felt attraction and infatuation both of which resulted in disappointment and sadness.

True love, i beleive is all about care and feeling the other person's feeling. most people when they see an attractive member of the opposite sex, feel they are in love, thats a total mistake. do you care for that person? how much? can you feel wht she/he is feeling? do you feel the same way. these are the many questions that we are to ask ourselves, before we say we are in love.
 
The film Veer-Zaara comes to mind when thinking about true love. 22 years they waited for each other, Zaara for Veer and he for zaara, can you do the same for your love?

I admit i haven't felt like that for anyone.

Actor gaurav chopra said "we are more in love with the concept of being in love, but very few people actually experience true love in their lives".
Very true, very well said

May be i wish one day someone woud feel for me as zaara did for Veer and may be i would feel for someone as Devdas did for paro.

good luck

I do not know whether i should post what is in my mind here. There are so many people so many people reding this stuff. I do not know whether i feel sad, whether, ifeel angry, but i feel a kind of mercy towrds my self. The reason i do not know but i feel that way.

I have strange dreams. And in my dreams a very nice girl called Neeta keeps coming. She touches me caresses me and asks whats on my mind. The haedache i have after a hard day disappers immediately when she touches my forhead.

I have never known any Neeta in my whole life. But this name keeps coming and coming. Neeta is probably the name of 1 million indian girls. is that why that name keeps coming in my mind? I do not know how Neeta looks, but i can imagine her shape. not how tall or how she dresses, but she has got those loving eyes and a an air of enthusiasm about her........later

Even if you call this people animals it would not be enough. People like Moninder Pandher and Surendra koli are beyond anything science can explain.

the sad thing is there are a lot of these type of animalistic people evrywhere. I know because there are two such people in my own family. They haven't committed any crime so far, but have all the potential of committing one. The good thing is these people are cowards, they fear of getting beaten up before they do any harm to neighbors but inside the house they are at their peak.
The animals in my family are different from koli and pandher in the fact they are not paedophiles or murderers. But they are sexually perverted. They can rape, sodomise given the chance.

And they are sadists. They harm other people and they derive emotional and sexual pleasure from that.

I have been abused a lot as a child. Exploited. Luckily i am a guy. if i was a girl i would have been raped many times.

There is no system that this type of people be brought to justice.